Sunday, December 23, 2007
Peace on Earth
thank-you for comment!
Saturday, December 22, 2007
Happy Solstice
Technology, I love it. I am sitting on a bench, outside the closed (too late) library. I was so disappointed that it was not open. I then realized I should still be able to hook in to the WiFi, and wa-la! Internet! It is a bit difficult typing on my lap - but it is now a true laptop. I really like that I can sit here in southwest Florida and write to friends and stay connected.
Mom has good days and bad days. The doctor told us the next 2 weeks would be hard. Mom called the doctor a con artist. Yesterday was a bad day, today was a good day. I think it is going to be this way for awhile.
Wednesday, December 19, 2007
mom's doing better
Her spirits are perking up and it is a great thing to see. We still have a ways to go, it was a massive surgery, they took out the roof of her mouth, and she will have to have radiation treatment but she is much more comfortable and that is wonderful. Last night she took her plate out and put it back in herself and that was a big accomplishment.
Thank-you for all you e-mails and support, I really appreciate it and it has gotten me through.
I wish you all a very merry christmas and a great new year!!
Friday, December 14, 2007
back to Florida
Beth and Em are meeting me in Portland, I am bringing their Christmas presents and we will have a little Christmas tonight.
I will just miss William who will not be home from helping his parents in Sacramento until Sunday or Monday. Hopefully he will join me in Florida soon.... At least this time I am bringing my computer and I will be in touch.
Well this is a good thing, I was starting to lose my tan anyway! Ha!
Thanks for all your love and support - I really appreciate it.
Thursday, December 13, 2007
holding steady
Everything feels like it is on hold in my life. I have tried to think of a blog that would not be about my mom, but I can't think of one yet.
My life in these last 2 weeks home have been almost monastical. William is in Sacramento. We know very few people here and have even fewer friends, having moved to southern Oregon almost 5 years ago. I am quite alone. That part is not so hard, but it is cold, rainy and dark here. I have put up lots of christmas lights and that does cheer it up a bit. I put lights on the little cedar tree growing in the yard and light across the back porch. Red lights on the dining room cabinet, white lights on the mantles over the stove. Hard to come back from even a short stay in the tropics, to a northern climate.
I spend a lot of the day waiting to hear how mom is. In between waiting, I put wood in the wood fired hot tub and go in once a day, which has been really good for relaxing, being outdoors and getting warm.
We are having a Winter Solstice Party next week and I have sent out the following invitations:
I love celebrating the solstice, it is non denominational, non cultural - it is planetary! The days start to get a little longer in the Northern Hemisphere and a little shorter in the southern, not man made, nature made. A holiday that is for everyone alive on the planet, a cosmic party, 10:08 Pacific Standard time on December 21st and 1:08 AM Eastern Standard time on December 22.
This is our 4th annual solstice party, last one was at summer solstice. Where in fact it was very cold. There was a cool wind blowing and we dressed for summer and were cold. Last year at the winter solstice party, we knew it would be cold and were very comfortable in front of the bonfire, hanging out outdoors on the longest night of the year. I wish all my friends could be here.
Sunday, December 9, 2007
a little better
Again thanks for all your prayers and concern. Friends are such a good thing to have.
Friday, December 7, 2007
mom's surgery today
Recent photo from Florida, me with my brother, mom and dad.
Thanks for all your prayers.
Sunday, December 2, 2007
better news
Since she saw the doc at the cancer center last Wednesday, we have better news. The tumor is very operable and she is scheduled for surgery next Friday. The operation takes about an hour and she can go home the next day. The doctor was, as my mom told it, a very classy woman, and told her that she was a healthy and young 76 year old and everything looked good for the surgery and recovery.
Since the surgery was a week out, I came home with William on Thursday. I could see that my parent's were looking forward to being alone for a week to get themselves together. When and if they need me, I will fly back. It was really hard for me to leave, but sometimes that is the most you can do for someone - give them the absence of you - which gives them their space.
It was very fortuitous that we were there when we were. I think we helped them considerably by being there. My mom's first responce to the cancer diagnosis was, I am not willing to try anything and will just die. I did some research on the internet and told her it was very operable and had a great success rate. I told her about my friends who have battle cancer and survived, Seiza and Jim especially. I told her who cares if you have a plate in your mouth, you can breath, eat, taste, see, and still love. And please don't leave us alone on this planet with dad.....that made her laugh.
My parents are a unit as William likes to say. They have been together since high school. He was the captian of the football team and she was the queen of the prom.
Tuesday, November 27, 2007
bad news
William is flying home on Thursday and I am staying in Florida for as long as I need to. I am so thankful that we were here.
I would love to hear from you, my friends. I do not have my computer with me and do not have your e-mail address. Mine is ddmichel@charter.net
I would love to talk to you Seiza and I will call you soon. And Susan, I guess I am now in the "Sinus Wars". I am grateful to both of you for your strength and honesty through your cancer experiences and I know that I am better prepared because of it.
Love and cherish those close to you, life can change in a moment.
Thank-you.
Saturday, November 17, 2007
Florida - the sunshine state
Of course we are having a wonderful time. Blue skies and beaches, mi favorita! We have already seen an amazing amount of birds, turtles and other wildlife. We have been swimming in the gulf and the pool in my parent's yard, a great treat in November. I will post photos when we return.
Happy Thanksgiving to all!
Wednesday, November 7, 2007
flocking together
Friday, November 2, 2007
woman in black
This is a very powerful thing to see, a long line of woman standing solemnly stretching down the street. And an even more powerful thing to be a part of. We had one sign that said, "End the Circle of Violence", and one that said, "Woman in Mourning". There were of course several people who gave us a strong thumbs down, most people just looked uncomfortable, like we reminded them of something they didn't want to be reminded of. One person kept mouthing "circle of violence" like he didn't understand it. There were several cars of supporters, giving us the peace sign. Most people just ignored us though, like when someone's dog takes a dump and they pretend not to see it so they don't have to do anything about it.
And of course on the opposite corner there were several pro war ralliers, holding two huge American flags and "support our troops" signs, dressed in red, white and blue, and yelling to passing cars, which were honking in support. Honk Honk Honk. All the big trucks honked and then laughed at us. Yea, Honk if you love war. Honk if you love cheap oil. Honk if you want to see this country bankrupt.
I don't understand what it is about peace that scares people. Peace is patriotic too.
Tuesday, October 30, 2007
eating all week and Emily's visit
Miss Em was with us for the week-end - what a joy she is! Beth dropped her off on her way to California to get the rest of her things in storage. So for 3 whole days we rode bikes, went to the playground, made blueberry pancakes, played "Go Fish" and "Concentration". We read books, watched videos, dug in the dirt, and dressed up like princesses. We moved the table in the living room, turned up the music and danced. We dressed our dolls, made forts and swam in the hot tub. We put together puzzles, sang songs, rode our bikes some more and never went to bed early.
Grandma is very tired today and going to do the one thing we did not do while Em was here - take a nap.
Tuesday, October 23, 2007
eating, what a concept
I hope this "cleanse" worked, 'cause I don't think I want to do another one for awhile!!
Sunday, October 21, 2007
water and more water
Wednesday, October 17, 2007
another day, another book
The best part was finding out that he had written 9 other 2 word title books. I can't wait to read them. I always feel better when I know I have something good to read. "Basket Case", "Sick Puppy", "Lucky You", "Stormy Weather", "Strip Tease" (which was made into a feature film starring Demi Moore and Burt Reynolds), "Native Tongue", "Skin Tight", "Double Whammy", "Tourist Season" and a new one soon, "Nature Girl". He even wrote 3 books of nonfiction with 2 word titles, but they have words added on to explain them; "Team Rodent: How Disney Devours the World", "Kick Ass: Selected Columns", I think I am going to like that one, and "Paradise Screwed: Selected Columns". He means Florida, that is where grew up and still lives.
He writes a local column for the Miami Herald. You can read his column at http://www.miamiherald.com/news/columnists/carl_hiaasen/
William and I are traveling to just north of the everglades in a few weeks to visit my parents. White sand beaches, the warm water of the Gulf of Mexico and the best part is that mom and dad have a pool in their yard and I can swim when ever I want. Did I say I love to swim?
Tuesday, October 16, 2007
it's raining, I'm reading
This book is out of print but I got a copy on Amazon.com for .17 cents plus shipping! If you are a Mexicophile like me, you will definitely want to read this book.
The editor said, "The interpretation of one race to another is a necessary task for the writer of today. This book cuts through the plaster facade of Mexico and shows a living people"
Viva Mexico!
Thursday, October 11, 2007
good books
This was a most amazing and surprising little book that William recently found it at our library sale. It starts out talking about an old couple and ends up, well you'll just have to read it. I don't want to spoil the surprise.
The premise of the book is a quote at the beginning by John Ruskin, from "Sesame and Lilies", "The ennobling difference between one man an another - between one animal and another - is precisely in this, that one feels more than the other".
This book is published by Graywolf Press and when I looked in the back, I saw that it had been designed by an old friend of William's, Tree Swenson, from Port Townsend.
It's a small world.
This book was published in 2003 but it was written by Rebecca West in the 60's. This is a wonderfully insight visit to Mexico.
It is a moving travel, memoir and history book all in one. She is a very intelligent and well read woman and her vision is astute as she turns her eye to the history of Mexico.
She has a chapter on Rivera and Frida Kahlo. Chapters on Leon Trotsky, Race Relations, Chapultepec, Aztec Society, Mines and Minerals, Dona Marina and Religion and Sorcery, plus several more.
Susan, this is a book you must read, being very intelligent yourself, and you will understand more of it than I.
She makes very interesting connections and has a keen eye. This book will definitely make you think.
Saturday, October 6, 2007
Umpqua Writers
The core group was Pearl, Lynn, Dan, Betty, Spike and Muriel. It is amazing how many things have changed since the first time I met them and then it is amazing how many things are the same.
Pearl is the leader of the group. She says she inherited it from Muriel, who was in the process of moving to Eugene when I started. Muriel was actually visiting today, coming to the meeting on her way south to something. She is a really good writer and is working on her second book about the pioneers in this part of Oregon. Her books are very well researched and quite interesting.
Pearl is the natural leader. She is the one who sends out a newsletter for the group and announces the next meeting. She is an independent thinker, a good writer and a very patience listener. She is an avid Trekkie and writes science fiction among other things. She encourages all of us and keeps us on track.
I guess the group is weighted to science fiction or fantasy, I genre I don't write in. Lynn just self published her first book and it is a fantasy, she is working on the sequel. Dan writes science fiction. He is a very prolific and creative writer, able to make it seem like everything is normal and then wow, something strange happens. He books have great plots, I hope to see them in print one day.
The best part of this morning though was seeing Spike's book! Spike is Betty's cousin, they are in their 80's. Spike come to live with Betty after they were both widowed. She brought him to the group. He was slow to start and very quiet but it soon became obvious that he was a natural storyteller. We listened spell bound every month, to another story of Spike's for his childhood. He had been a cowboy in southern California when that really meant something.
After one writers meeting, a couple of years ago, we are standing out front still talking when we noticed a brand new bright blue Mustang, parked at the curb. We were all surprised when Spike opened the door for Betty. What a guy! Late 80's and he buys a brand new fun car! What a cowboy!
Spike died last year and I really miss him. I am sure I am not the only one. I am so grateful that I got to meet this man and hear him read his stories. Now when I read them they will forever be in his voice. He never wanted to talk about publishing them but after he died, Betty and his daughter put the stories together. The book has old photos and illustrations done by Spike himself.
A young Spike
Congratulations on publishing your book Spike!
and thank-you for sharing.
Friday, October 5, 2007
Homecoming
Tonight William and I went to the local high school homecoming football game with my teacher friends. South Umpqua High School. I taught there for 2 years. The kids I had in Biology I, are now seniors. It was really fun to see them in the band, cheerleading, on the team and as homecoming queen. And surprisingly they were glad to see me. I am going to start substitute teaching, I just got my license renewed and signed up at the district office this very morning.
I miss the kids. When I was teaching I loved the kids, it was the adults who drove me crazy.
In addition to working with kids, I will make twice what I made at my job with the environmental non-profit, that ran out of money to pay me anyway.......
One of the students I had my first year at SU, when I was teaching drama, said he was currently going to Southern Oregon University pursuing a career in acting. He was so grateful for the plays we did and he was glad to see me. I was so happy to hear he was in Ashland, acting, and it was good to see him. I really enjoy young people and I am looking forward to subbing.
Subbing; all of the fun of the kids, none of the responsibility. No grades, meetings, parents, "new" ideas from administrators. No preparation, no papers to read, no deadlines to meet. I could go on.
Oh the part that drove me crazy? The first thing I think of is teaching biology with 15 year old books and then only having one class set (I had 4 classes of Bio I) so no one could take the book home, that meant I had to research everything on the Internet before I presented a subject so I could introduce updated information. Oh and having a Biology II class with no books. I had no curriculum (I choose my own, Environmental Science of course) and bought the books myself on the Internet. And to top that off some new vice principal decides that I have to prove myself to her. Sorry babe, no time.
I hope 5 years from now kids will still be giving me hugs at the football games saying, you were my favorite substitute, like tonight they said, you were my favorite teacher.
Monday, October 1, 2007
wildlife in Sacramento
Monday, September 24, 2007
The Tempest
Prospero and King Alonso make peace.
- Ashland Shakespeare Festival
These actors were both incredible, especially Prospero. This is also Shakespeare's last play and some say his best. It almost begins where a tragedy leaves off, only years later. And though it is not a comedy as the other comedy's, it has some very funny lines. It has a happy ending and deals with all the mistaken identities and transformations of humans, as so many of his other plays do. The older I get the more I appreciate Shakespeare.
"We are such stuff as dreams are made on......."
- The Tempest, Act IV, Scene i
Wednesday, September 19, 2007
our government at work
Commonly know as the Bureau of Land Management
is now the bureau of land MIS management.
700 percent increase in logging Oregon's last old-growth forests!"
Some background:
BLM lands, also known as “O&C” lands, are in a square-mile checker-board land ownership patterns. 2.6 milllion acres of public land.
The federal government took these lands back from the Oregon and California (O&C) Railroads in the early 20th century because of fraudulent land deals.
Almost all of these awesome photos were taken by my boss at UW, Francis Eatherington, seen here counting the rings on this over 300 year old tree.
It's so short sighted to cut these giants. It's like selling your family jewelry to pay the water bill. What are you going to do next month?
Monday, September 17, 2007
blogger play
Wednesday, September 12, 2007
First Day of Kindergarten
There's her teacher, Mr. Bento, with the hat, after school directing kids to their buses.
I was shy about bringing in my camera in the morning and so we got our photo in the parking lot. Well when we got up to the school, all the parents, were taking pictures and had video cameras going. One mother walked behind her son, taping him walking into school the first day. It seemed wierd to me. But at the end of the first day, I joined several other partents in taking photos and shooting videos.
I have tried, unsuccessfully, to put in a little video of her in her classroom.
If you know how to add a video to these blogs, let me know.
Monday, September 10, 2007
Fortunate Tree
Today is his birthday. Feliz Cumplionos Stephen.
Sunday, September 9, 2007
Cabin Clearing
Even room for a fire pit.
Our friends Carol, her daughter Ariel and husband Monico and their adorable boy Angel, came and built the first fire and cooked the first meal out there with us. It was wonderful. Carne asada, Monico's specially.
We have never seen the cabin from this vantage until now. By this winter this will all be green with new grass. If Beth keeps it mowed the berries won't come back.
Beth and Ben got the floor down and painted. It looks great.
I had a great time seeing old friends in Port Townsend and seeing energy put into this beautiful piece of property. I am very glad to be home though, and sleeping in my own bed with my sweet husband.
I also had the honor of taking Miss Em to her first day of Kindergarten! That's the next blog.
Thanks for listening.
Tuesday, August 28, 2007
Beth and Em Moving to the "Cabin"
The view from the cabin is awesome, it faces west and looks out over our neighbors 40 acre meadow to the snowcapped Olympic Mountains! There is a small pond, huge cedar and maple trees and more blackberries and salmon berries than anyone could want. It is 3 miles down hill to the town of Quilcene, Emily's school and the saltwater of Hood Canal.
I am going up next week and hire a friend of ours with a machine to do some clearing around the cabin. Get rid of some of the blackberries that have taken over.
It kind of needs it.
What a fun project, it will be so rewarding to see it opened up and space around the cabin again. I have been wanting to do this for a few years now.
I will of course take lots of photos.
I am back to one grandchild - the State of California gave Caelan back to his mom.....she was back in jail 2 weeks later and who knows who he is staying with. It was very hard for Beth and Emily to let him go but they were there for Caelan when he needed them. Because of Beth, he got to stay in his house and finish this year at his school when his dad died four days before christmas, and I am very proud of her. I can't say the same for the state of California.
This move back to where she grew up and has old friends could be good for her.
Thanks for listening. Thanks for thinking. I would love to hear from you.
Thursday, August 23, 2007
Abundance
Emily is coming today and she loves to pick the strawberries. Si como no!
Our flowers are awesome this year too. I already can't wait till next year, I have big flower plans. This is our second summer here and by next year, the flowers will be established. Things grow really well in southern Oregon.
Live to water.
Sunday, August 19, 2007
Old Friends
Saturday, August 11, 2007
Eaten by a Shark!
Crescent City, California
Watch out for sharks
I just returned home yesterday from the 6 hour round trip to Crescent City, taking Emily back to Beth. It was worth it. We got to have her for a week and she is such a joy. Emily has been to Ocean World lots of times as they go by it on the way home from Myrtle Creek. They have gone in the winter when they were the only people, and then the trainers bring the seals up on the deck and they kiss Emily on the cheeks, I was told. Of course August is peak tourist season for the California coast. The Ocean World tour was packed, and the roads were full of traffic, tons of trucks, RV's, trailers. The cutoff from Grants Pass, which is already in the mountains, across the coast range mountains down to Crescent City on the coast, is not for the faint at heart. There are many miles of following the Smith River up a canyon, where a passenger could touch the rocks on the curves. Never the less, it was packed. My 20 year old BMW did great though, left many a newer rig behind on a hill or curve, which there are many a hill and curve. It does help to have driven this road so many times. I first drove it 30 years ago. It has improved and I have declined and so it still works for me. Compared to then, half the time.
Holding starfish
Petting Sharks!
Thanks for listening and I hope you are having a great summer!
Tuesday, August 7, 2007
Saving Fish From Drowning
The next book is "Cause Celeb", by Helen Fielding of the Bridget Jone's Diary fame. I just found "Bridget Jone's Diary" at the thrift store this summer and thought it was v. good. The story was shallow but the writing new and refreshing. I then had the good fortune 2 weeks later to find the sequel to the Diary, "Bridget Jones, the Edge of Reason", equally silly story but v. v. good writing idea. I totally enjoyed it. Great fun summer reads. Saw the movies, terrible. So here is her first book, I am looking forward to seeing her beginning writing.
Another treasure found is a fairly recent Moon Travel Puerto Vallarta Handbook. Which is good as I spend a lot of time visiting friends near PV, it was my first love on the Mexico mainland and my old book is just that, really old.
Statues in Puerto Vallarta
"Oregon River Tours" by John Garren is a great guide to touring Oregon rivers. It has great maps and river profiles. It was published in '76 so we will still need to check something more recent before we head out but many of the maps are still accurate.
The Rogue River in Southern Oregon
"Journey Into Cyprus", by Colin Thubron looks really interesting. The New Yorker says, "A master of the telling anecdote....who makes travel writing an art." I love travel tales almost as much as I like to travel. Many more books get read, then travels taken....
A lucky find was the Lonely Planet, "Bali and Lombok". William and I are traveling to the East next winter and one spot considered is Bali. This is a very recent guide book and only $4.
Bali
India
We are also considering visiting Thailand and the next book is "Tales from Thailand", by Lotus. This is an old book, 60's but it really looks interesting, Lotus is an Englishman who lived in Siam (Thailand) from 1902 to 1930.
Thailand
Next is a great book, "How To Get Lost and Found in New Zealand", by John McDermott. We do have friends here we would love to visit, it sounds like a fascinating place.
The last 2 books are by Louise Erdrich, "The Beet Queen" and "Tracks". I feel in love with her first book, "Love Medicene" years ago. When I found "The Beet Queen" and realized it was a sequel, I was thrilled. I bought this copy to give to a friend, but I didn't even know "Tracks" the first in the series exsisted. Wow. I can't wait to read it. Not only in does Erdrich look like she is a lovely person she is a Chippewas of North Dakota and writes some of the most compelling stories I have ever read.
Louis Erdrich
Now, on to finish "Saving Fish From Drowning"....
Thanks for thinking.